Tips for Moving with Children 

In 2020 – 21 the real estate market changed up and down. And so many people are taking advantage of selling homes to move elsewhere. And there is no doubt, moving can be a very stressful time for parents. However, it is essential to remember the stress created when moving with children, too. What’s more, their pain increases exponentially when they have to say goodbye to friends, teachers, and loved ones. 

Military families experience this regularly. But it gets no easier each time, and the military lifestyle comes with its own set of special considerations. Teaching children as they grow to adapt to military life is essential. 

Then there are some families who move by choice or for a job. There are special provisions you can take for each child in those cases, depending on their ages. That is why the realty team at Kayifi has designed this quick guide to moving with children. 

Moving with Infants and Toddlers 

Infants and toddlers take their clues from their parents. If you are stressed and crying, they will be too. But if you make them really believe this move to a new home is an adventure you are excited about, they will feel the same. Here are some tips to remember when the business of the move overtakes your day. 

• Take time out to snuggle and comfort your child. Let them know you are never too busy for them. 
• Keep communication upbeat and straightforward. Chanting “we’re going to the new house” while bouncing the little one will instill a sense of fun and excitement. 
• Pack their room last and unpack it first thing. In fact, if you have someone watching the little ones, have the rooms ready when they walk in for the first time. 

• Stay with mealtime, nap time, bath, and bedtimes to help them no get too off-kilter. 

A New Home with Preschoolers 

This age may present a more significant issue, but preschool ages adapt quickly. They often ask silly questions like can “we take my toys?” and “can I go too?” But those questions are easily put to rest. 

• Have a pre-move discussion with the kids. Think of things for them to get excited about. But also, inform them of the work ahead, so they know you will be extra busy. 
• Give them a job. If you let them help, kids will feel they are a part. It may only last for a minute or two, but they will be proud of the effort they made. And remember, young children love boxes! Take advantage of that. 

• Find a balance between the old and new routines and gradually adjust. 
• Work with the new school. Helping the preschool teacher out is always appreciated. Pack some comfort snacks and toys in their bag to take to school. Allow them to wear their favorite clothes or shoes. Comfort is key. 

Encouragement for School-Age Kids When Moving 

With school-aged kids, several things are going on in their heads. They wonder what life will be like, will they like it there, and will they make friends. In addition, children worry about being the new kid in school and fitting in. Make sure you help them through this time and validate their emotions. 

Communication is Key: It is all about the real talk here. When kids are of the age they can understand, it can be challenging for them to adjust. Really listen to their feelings and let them know what is ahead. It may be a good idea for parents to place a calendar on the wall with goals to meet. That way, they know what is expected of them each day. 

Don’t Take It Personally: Children at this age may lash out with inappropriate or harsh words in this time of unrest. Try not to be angry or punish. Instead, talk about their feelings behind their words and allow them time to express themselves. 

Encourage Communication with Friends Old and New: There are two ways they will approach making new friends. Most kids are open to the idea, or they are not at all. Be sure to supply them with communication from home friends. Then give them the encouragement they will need to make new. 

Visit the New School: A great tip to introducing children to the new school is to go to the school on the weekend and show them the campus when no one is around. Then take the students in to meet the teacher if you can, after school one day. That way, the first day is not so intimidating. 

Moving with kids is more work, but it can be exciting for the whole family if approached right. Try the above tips for a smoother transition. And enjoy the move! 

CITED: Parents.com, Childmind.org